Did she ever think about the fact the childless women can’t physically have kids or is still waiting about having kids. Hell, she doesn’t want kids and just want to live her life with her lover.
My dad is gaining their trust, these birds are completely wild but they come to the apartment for snacks and my dad has gained their trust so much the are starting to let him give them pets every now and then. They sometimes even fly over him when they see him walking.
I’m sorry you feel that way. But to put it into perspective I can tell you that at least part of the mod team doesn’t get over 2 notes on their own stuff either. Notes are not always directly linked to your success. It’s a result of cultivating a community – and that does in some cases require you to find common ground with a lot of people. That is unfortunately how it works.
But like I said: a bunch of people on redline don’t exactly reap notes either, and we’re doing just fine. I personally posted a huge WIP some weeks ago, one of my best pieces in the works – and it still hasn’t got any notes. But does it really matter at all? I was learning during the process and I liked doing it.
And if you want to look at it in a cynical way, what is a note exactly? someone clicking a button. We as artists need to grow beyond the thought that other’s online clicks warrant so much of our attention when we’re just trying to have fun with our hobby.
It can be hard when you’re just getting started because it seems logical that people who hoard notes are hogging your spotlight too. They’re not. Give it time, give yourself time. Learn to become a lone wolf. Love your craft and what you do – and then learn to publish it out of spite. Defy yourself to become better – there’s really no other way around it.
So sorry. The art world is rough like that, both digital and analogue. The best you can do is rise above it and thrive in your craft and the learning experience.
This might sound harsh but trust me, it comes from a place of love, cause we’ve all been there. You can do this.