ladylike-foxes:

embyrr922:

cali-cocaine:

this is good

I’d just like to add, see how they behave when they’re angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they’re calm, and then talk to them about it.

My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but after I explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration.

When I’m upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel like I’m mad at him, so now when I need some space, I’ll tell him what I’m upset about, or that I’m in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while.

See your friends and partners at their worst, but don’t assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they’ll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability.

^^^^
This is the best advice I’ve ever seen on this site, and it is so important. Communication is everything, and is 80% of the reason my husband and I have such a healthy, strong, and supportive relationship.

the-trickster-of-time:

Is it just me, or has @staff made it so that searching for any stuff tagged nsfw on the phone app is impossible.

They’ve outright removed that little padlock button that let you decide to filter out nsfw stuff or nah.

Get rid of the goddamn porn bots and pedophilia blogs, not the overall option to view nsfw content as a whole. Not all of it is filled with abuse and shit.

dailyaspecpositive:

You shouldn’t have to hide part of yourself so you don’t come off “like a snowflake”. The problem isn’t you, it’s other people’s intolerance and ignorance.

You are whole, you are a unique individual who is more than their labels and the labels put upon them by others. Your complexity is beautiful; it is natural and it is real.

sup guys

wildkrattssideblog:

scorpionosaint:

wildkrattssideblog:

I was thinking since I am leaving 5ever maybe, (just kidding but I won’t be active for a long long time) I could do a day of drawing for peeps here Friday evening. So yeah I might not get them all but send a request and I’ll draw it. 

 (no ships though sorry 😀 )

how about Martin with his new awesome CPS malfunction from the Halloween Special? 

What up 😀

Yeah it’s late, but I think this is my Cutest Martin I’ve drawn so there! 😀

OMG THIS IS ADORABLE!!! His cute face omg!

It was worth the wait omg I can’t get over how cute he looks!

do you ever find yourself doing a paper/assignment for a class and go “what the fuck was the professor smoking when writing this shit?” cuz I’m questioning that right now..

I hate this assignment….. and to make it worse its like 100 points