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She doesn’t! Neither does your son! Or you for that matter!   It’s pretty disheartening to see how many commenters don’t get this. 

Holy shit yes. Agree. Thank you Girl Scouts.

My family is very physically affectionate, but some of my cousin are more shy and less comfortable with hugs. One thing I try to do is get to their level and ask if they want a hug. If they express that they don’t (which is pretty much anything but hugging me), I leave it be. Their parents always try to apologize but I’m just “I’m not going to make them hug me if they don’t want to”. I even do this for my sister who never refuses physical affection because just because she’s morning okay with it doesn’t mean she shouldn’t be allowed to refuse if need be

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